Domestic Violence

I have been thinking for a while about some issues in  today's world and more specifically in the women world. How different is everything these days. The yesterday scared and weak woman turning into a strong and confident one. This is beautiful. We all have to be happy for each other and be there for all this other women that need our help. I am a woman and I have been through all that transitions that almost every woman has been going these days. I have been on the bottom and on the top. I know what is to fear, be scared, be weak, be helpless. I always wanted to create something for the women, we need to support each other. The closest to my heart always has been the women victims of domestic violence. What can we do to easy their pain, to give them hope, to be there for them. Let's educate each other and do what we can in the process. Domestic violence is still a huge issue.

Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of size, gender, or strength, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused, or denied. This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, rather than physical. Emotional abuse is often minimized, yet it can leave deep and lasting scars.

Let's get familiar with the signs of domestic violence and be supportive to the ones in need. We all can make a difference. If you see them in your friend, mother, sister, neighbor talk to them and offer your help. Give them the information they need to contact the proper authorities.

There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner—constantly watching what you say and do in order to avoid a blow-up—chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive. Other signs that you may be in an abusive relationship include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.

Please understand that this is very complicated situation and the vicims often are to embarresed to talk about it. Be sensitive and understanding. Listen rather than give an opinion. Don't give up on them and be there regardless. Make them feel that no matter what,  you are there for them. Often they are afraid of their partner and isolate their self from friends, relatives and family. Do not take that wrong thinking they trying to avoid you, mabe thats when they really need you. To separate your self from an abusive partner is a very long process. Sometimes taking even years. Talk to your friends, encourage them, remaind them how strong, beautiful and smart they are. We all can take a participation in this process. Almost each of us know a person in need. Lets be there for each other and count on one another. We are strong, beautifull and intelligent all in our own ways. Women for Women !!!!! You can make a difference !