The best thing in this busy world is that we have the power of our thoughts :of our lives and of our confidence. Always remind yourself who you are - God created you just PERFECT. You have exactly the same value as anyone else - you can do exactly the same things that anybody else can do - just have to put your mind, hearth and soul into it.
Let's forget for a moment the countless excuses we are giving our selves every day - why we did not do this or that ; why we eat so much ; why we let someone push us to the limit...etc.
Let's for a second pay attention to our own selves. Don't forget - you are in control. Only you can make yourself do things, only you can allow yourself to get angry, sad, mad or happy...
Isn't this amazing??? So why we don't forget about the every day excuses and really take our lives in our own hands and start living the life God meant for us to have? Remove the negativity around you. Remove the evil, the jelaousy...We are so much better than this !!!!
Each time someone criticizes you, try making a positive affirmation about yourself to yourself. Don't just stand by and take in everything anyone wants to dump on you. Establish independence! Have your own attitude about yourself and don't be defeated by criticism .
A confident woman can say "NO" when she needs to. She can endure people's displeasure and is able to reason that. If the disapointed person truly wants a relationship with her they will get over their disapointment and want her to be free to make her own decisions. When you do feel you need to say "NO" , you don't have to give a reason why. So often people want us to justify our decisions and we really don't need to that.
There is nothing wrong with giving a reason if you have one, but we go overboard in trying to explain ourselves sometimes. If an offended person doesn't want to understand, they are never going to no matter how many reasons you give. Follow your heart and keep your peace. Say "NO" when you need and "YES" when you should. Joyce Meyer
http://www.simestyle.net/
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